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  • A husband’s leadership

    A husband’s leadership

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    God has entrusted to mere men the awesome privilege and responsibility of loving, leading, nurturing, and cherishing an imperfect woman in the same way that Christ loves his church. A loving husband finds ways to let his wife shine and creates space for her to develop her strengths. He makes it easy for his wife to submit, follow and respect him. Jonathan Leeman describes how a husband is to view his authority in the home:

     “The husband cannot demand respect or submission! His job is to draw his wife towards oneness. He woos her in a compelling, loving, gentle, patient, understanding way. Song of Solomon gives us a picture of the compelling nature of a husband’s authority. You are to win your wife with the compelling power of your love for her and care for her and tenderness for her as you seek to rule the earth together, as God instructed in Genesis 1. How tragic it is when a husband uses his authority selfishly for his own gain. We are called to rule and lead like Christ rules—a beautiful, tender, gentle Saviour.”

    Lead like Jesus.

    “Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound, but I am referring to Christ and the Church” (Eph 5:31).

    God’s original plan envisages a husband who is a lifelong lover, leader, and learner.

    1. Lover. Loving his wife is by far the most important responsibility of a husband. Paul summarizes, Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them” (Col 3:19). The beautiful gospel story is enacted when a husband truly, unconditionally loves his wife, over and over and over, daily laying down his life and his desires/needs/wants for her good.

    Paul likens a husband’s love to Christ’s love for the church: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her” (Eph 5:25).

    A husband’s love is a choice (Eph 5:25a). His love embraces feelings, but does not depend on them. Just as Jesus chose to love us even though we were unlovable, a husband’s love ought to be unconditional. A husband’s love is also sacrificial. Christ’s example shows that love is about what a husband gives, not what he gets.

     A husband’s love is exclusive. Although a Christian man is called to love all people, clearly, he is to love his wife as no other. It is a unique love, like Christ’s special love for his church. A husband’s love is other-person focused, not self-focused (Eph 5:28-32). He is to treat his wife in the same way or better than he treats himself.

    Love is a perishable commodity.

    A husband may protest, “But my wife knows that I love her. Nothing has changed since I stood at the altar and swore undying love.” But love is a perishable commodity. Yesterday’s love must be renewed and expressed to your wife every single day. A husband who does not actively love his wife will wake up one day to discover a distant wife and a marriage that’s withered into a lifeless stick.  A husband who does not intentionally love his wife will progressively become more independent, critical, harsh, and self-centred.

    Do the things you did at first.

    Another husband may complain, “We’ve fallen out of love. We no longer even like each other.” But in Revelation 2:4-5, God accuses the first century Ephesian church of lovelessness, “You have forsaken your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the deeds you did at first.” The role of a loving husband is to do the things you did at first when your relationship with your wife was sweet and intimate. Keep doing those things for as long as you have life in your body.

    2. Leader. The husband is to lead his wife, as he submits to Christ. “But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God” (1 Cor 11:3). This is God’s order for the relationship. It has nothing to do with competence or equality. A godly husband needs to learn to lead his wife well. He cannot abdicate this responsibility by passively standing by and expecting his wife to take the reins, as Adam did in the Garden.

    3. Learner. A godly husband seeks to learn and know his wife deeply, so that he can love and lead her better. Peter writes, “Husbands, in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman, and show her honour as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered” (1 Peter 3:7).

    An understanding husband is an observant learner, not for the purpose of criticizing his wife, but in order to praise, encourage, and help her become the woman that God designed her to be. He takes joy in her progress.

    A dozen practices of a loving leader.

    1. Take the initiative and bear responsibility for important decisions. Never make an important decision without getting your wife’s input.
    2. Take an active role in teaching and disciplining the children.
    3. Be completely committed to your wife in thought, word, deed, and sexual purity. She should know that you are a man of one woman, and she is that woman! Make your wife feel cherished like no other.
    4. Do your best to provide financially (1 Tim 5:8), care for your wife emotionally, and provide what you know will be good for her. However, provision does not mean wealth and extravagance. It is better for your family to enjoy your presence than your presents.
    5. Bring out the best in your wife (Eph 5:26-27). Allow her to shine.
    6. Be actively involved in her spiritual life and provide spiritual leadership for the family. Do everything you can to help her see Jesus more clearly through the witness of your own life. Faithfully pray for her, that Jesus Christ may be glorified in her and that she might know his love and grace. As a couple, write down goals for how you want your marriage to honour God. Initiate devotions and encourage active service in church.
    7. Trust your wife (Prov 31:11). Love believes the best and makes the most charitable assumptions when she makes a mistake.
    8. Order your lives and finances so that she can focus her attention on her home and family (Titus 2:5). Relieve pressure from her shoulders.
    9. Regularly praise, encourage, and affirm your wife (Prov 31:28-29). Everyone responds better to praise that to criticism. Gratitude not expressed is not gratitude. Honour not expressed is not honour. Each time you say the words, “I love you”, you are expressing three profound truths: “I choose you. I am committed to you. I delight in you.”
    10. Show her tender affection with loving touches (holding hands, putting arms around her waist, kissing her goodnight (Song of Solomon 1:2). Affection expressed solely for sexual purposes is not affection.
    11. Protect her from attacks from outside (John 10:27). Be a good shepherd to her.
    12. Creatively find ways to nurture companionship and intimacy (Gen 2:18). Since God created marriage for lifelong, one-flesh union, a loving husband removes all obstacles to this unity. Plan date nights and share the happiest and saddest moments of your day. Find fun activities you both enjoy doing and schedule them into your week. Pray and read the Bible together. The saying is true: “Couples who play and pray together, stay together.”

    Five practices of a learner.

    1. A learner regularly reads good books on marriage to develop better skills. Other than Christ, nothing is more important to him than learning how to grow his marriage.
    2. A learner studies his wife’s unique personality, goals, joys, and frustrations. He creates a haven for his wife to share personal things with him. A wife will close down if her husband fails to give her his full attention; makes snide or flippant remarks; cross-examines her like a prosecuting attorney; or gives solutions to her problems but shows no concern for how she feels.
    3. A learner will notice his wife’s strengths, weaknesses, and pressures. A loving husband tries to understand the details of his wife’s life, to help and encourage her. He does not notice her faults to criticize her, but to stretch mercy over her failures.
    4. A learner finds out what makes his wife happy (Deut 24:5). In the Old Testament, a husband was not allowed to do military service for a year after his wedding, as he was to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he married!
    5. A learner understands the obvious differences between men and women. A loving husband does not treat his wife as a male buddy. Most women feel loved when they’re pursued and when their husband initiates romance. A learner realizes that men and women are different sexually and communicate differently—men give summaries while women want the whole story! A learner honours these God-given differences.

    An honourable man.

    Peter wrote that if a husband dishonours his wife and doesn’t live with her in an understanding way, his prayers will be hindered (1 Peter 3:7). This is a sober warning to husbands. An honourable man treats his wife with the dignity normally reserved for someone above him in authority. Honour is not a highly rated characteristic in our culture, but it is highly regarded by God.

    An honourable man is considerate and humble in leading his wife. He is prepared to sacrifice his own comforts, privileges and desires for his bride, as Christ did when He gave up heaven to become a mere man, to lay down his life for his people (Phil 2:5-11). He has the same attitude as Jesus Christ, considering his wife as more important than himself.

    An honourable man values and cherishes his wife simply because she is a woman. There is something inherent in manhood and womanhood that requires men to treat women with gentle consideration, understanding, and protectiveness (1 Peter 3:7). Feminists may disagree, but male chivalry finds its roots in biblical truth.

    An honourable man does not raise his voice or use harsh or profane words with his wife. A husband who honours his wife listens patiently, speaks kindly, and expresses thanks and courtesy, even when he disagrees with her. As Solomon reminds us, “Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city” (Proverbs 16:32)

    A daunting task.

    “In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.  After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church—”(Eph 5:28-29).

    If you are feeling inadequate as a husband, this is a good place to be! God has indeed entrusted to mere men the awesome role of loving, leading, nourishing, and cherishing an imperfect woman in the same way that Christ loves his church. This is more than a daunting task; it is impossible in our own strength. But with God’s perfect love and limitless grace at a husband’s disposal, he can set out each new day seeking to trust, obey and glorify Christ in his marriage by loving, serving, honouring and leading his wife. No matter how inadequate a husband may feel, there is perfect sufficiency in God’s grace and his great and precious promises (2 Cor 1:20). Through Christ’s resurrection power, God has promised to give Christian men everything required to be honourable husbands and to build God-honouring marriages (2 Peter 1:3-4). In Christ, you lack nothing.

     

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  • Running the Marathon of Motherhood

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    A while ago, my husband and I attended the funeral of his great aunt. She was a wonderful, faithful Christian woman who had served the Lord with great perseverance.

    At her funeral sat many of the children she had taught in Sunday school through the years, up until the year that she passed away. This woman is a great inspiration to us. How we long to serve like she did! We long to serve the Lord with perseverance and faithfulness, not falling away because of exhaustion and hurt or discouragement.

    Previously, we looked at what truths we need to hide in our hearts to keep us inspired to serve. Now, we will look at the practical tools God has given his people to help us to keep on serving him for a lifetime.

    God’s Word

    Read God’s Word. Just read, and keep reading. Just one passage a day. God’s Word is a double-edged sword (Heb 4:12). God will do his work through his Word to accomplish change in us. Read with a friend, read in a group. Just keep reading his Word. Having access to God’s Word means that you have access to exactly what God wants you to know about Him. He know exactly what is going on in your heart all the time. Why not let the One who knows all thing speak directly to where you are?

    Prayer

    Prayer is all about connecting with God himself. Prayer is a great privilege. We can come with confidence before the throne of the King of all things because of Jesus. We can come knowing that he wants us to cast our burdens on to him. This is the source of the greatest peace there is. Even if it feels cold, rather pray than don’t pray. Use this little model, the teaspoon prayer to help.
    T – Thank you
    S – Sorry
    P – Please

    God’s people

    We were always saved to be part of a Christian family. The Christian journey was never one we were expected to walk alone. The greatest joy is found in walking with other Christians. We are meant to be witnesses to one another. As we gather together in church and in Bible studies, for prayer groups and for life events, we are pictures to one another of God’s faithfulness and grace. If you are struggling with discouragement, you can look to your brothers and sisters who have walked through seasons of discouragement before you, and see evidence that God has been faithful. This will remind you that God will be faithful to you.

    Never buy into the lie that you don’t need church. You need church like a nose needs the rest of the body! Which is why we keep on forgiving and being patient with our Christian family – they are part of us and our walk with the Lord. Enjoy the sweet fellowship of other Christians as a foretaste of what we are looking forward to in Heaven.

    The Lord has not left us without the tools we need to fight discouragement so that we can keep on serving. These are not unexpected tools. In fact, they are rather unglamorous in their familiarity. However, God knows that they are exactly what we need to keep on serving him for a lifetime. May it be said of each of us one day, “this wonderful, faithful Christian served God with perseverance.”

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  • I am the vine, you are the branches.

    I am the vine, you are the branches.

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    Series: Face-to-face with Jesus, by Rosie Moore.

    I think it’s apt that we are finishing off our series in John’s gospel with Jesus’s seventh and final “I am” statement: “I am the vine and you are the branches” (John 15:5). Christ was addressing his disciples shortly before His final high priestly prayer, just a few days before He laid down his life for his friends. Let’s read it carefully together:

    I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.

    “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.  This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.

    “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love.  I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.  My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.

    Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command.  I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you.  This is my command: Love each other.

    A transplanted vine.

    God used a vine as a symbol of his people in the Hebrew Scriptures. The metaphor is used to describe how God took his people out of Egypt and transplanted them in the fertile land of Canaan:

    You transplanted a vine from Egypt;
        you drove out the nations and planted it.
    You cleared the ground for it,
        and it took root and filled the land. (Ps 80:8-9).

    That’s why there was a large golden vine on the front of the temple symbolizing that Israel was God’s vine. But, despite God’s tender love and care, we know that this vine was not always faithful and true. Look how Isaiah describes his unfaithful people as a fruitless vine:

    I will sing for the one I love
        a song about his vineyard:
    My loved one had a vineyard
        on a fertile hillside.
    He dug it up and cleared it of stones
        and planted it with the choicest vines.
    He built a watchtower in it
        and cut out a winepress as well.
    Then he looked for a crop of good grapes,
        but it yielded only bad fruit. (Isa 5:1-2)

    The faithful, fruitful vine.

    In contrast to fruitless, faithless Israel, Jesus calls himself the true vine. In John 15:5, Jesus is making it clear to his Jewish disciples that if they are to bear fruit for God’s kingdom, they must now be rooted in Him, not in Israel or their old traditions. Similarly, as a new covenant community, Christians must identify first and foremost with Christ Himself, not with Israel, our own culture or even the church. Christ alone is the true vine for believers.

    Complete dependence.

    Reading this passage, it struck me again how vital our relationship with Christ is. The verbs “remain” and “abide”, are repeated over and over again, for this is Christ’s formula for living in this world as a believer and as a community of believers.

    Just as a baby in the womb is totally dependent on its mother, so too, there is a relationship of complete trust and unity between a believer and Christ. The branch is utterly unable to survive on its own.  It depends entirely on the vine for its life, growth and fruitfulness.

    Just as the lamb depends on the shepherd, and the hungry person craves bread, so too a believer must remain connected to Christ, as intimately as a branch is connected to a plant. Our Christian lives depend on our abiding in Christ, and He in us. As Jesus was preparing his followers for his departure, this was vital encouragement for them as they confronted the world with the gospel, laying down their lives in the process.

    The vinedresser.

    The Old Testament picture of Israel as the vine depicted God the Father as the vinedresser. The vinedresser plants, cultivates and protects the vine. God does this for his children in the new covenant too. He doesn’t just save us and then leave us. He continues to be our loving gardener.

    We see from this chapter that if we are true followers of Christ, we have a relationship with the vine (the Son); with the vine dresser (the Father), and with the Counsellor (the Holy Spirit) (John 15:1-2; 4-5; 9-10; 26). God’s people are nourished, disciplined and helped by the triune God of the universe, who abides in us personally, as we abide in Him. Do we appreciate this immense privilege that belongs to each and every Christian?

    Two kinds of pruning.

    But notice the two kinds of pruning in Jesus’s metaphor:

    First, there’s the pruning that involves separating the fruitless branches from the vine and burning them. These branches are cut off at the trunk by the vinedresser (God), because they are worthless and will cause infection for the rest of the vine if they remain.

    These fruitless branches represent people who were never true believers, as they were never properly attached to the vine. They are people who appear to be part of the church, but because they don’t trust Jesus personally, they do not bear fruit for the kingdom. Often they try to block the efforts of believers and divide God’s people. We are warned that God Himself will cut them off from Christ’s life-giving vine. Judas was a fruitless branch. So were most of the Pharisees.

    Secondly, there is the pruning that cuts back fruitful branches to promote further growth and productivity. “Every branch that bears fruit he prunes.” God disciplines his true followers to strengthen our faith and character. While sometimes painful, this pruning is an act of great love by a Father towards his children (John 15:9).

    Some Bibles translate this pruning as “cleansing”. The vinedresser cleans up the fruit-bearing branches so that they will bear more fruit. Jesus tells the 11 disciples that they are already clean (John 15:3). They’d heard and received the gospel already. They were already Christ’s followers, cleansed from sin and being sanctified day-by- day.

    “God removes the dead wood from his church and disciplines the life of a believer so that it is directed into fruitful activity.” (Tenney)

    The cleansing of the word.

    So, how does the word of God cleanse us? Paul helps us understand this when he writes: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her  to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word“(Ephesians 5:26) 

    The word of God sanctifies us by showing us what sin is. God’s word convicts and inspires holiness in us. It promotes growth like a gardener’s pruning shears. In the power of the Holy Spirit, the word enables us to have victory over sin. Jesus is still washing his people through His word, the Bible.

    Abide in Me, and I in you.

    When Jesus spoke about his death, his first disciples were mostly concerned about themselves. If Jesus went away, what would become of them?

    These words “Abide in me”, were spoken in the context of a scary future. Their Master who said “I am the truth”, didn’t lie to his followers or give them false assurance of an easy life. He didn’t give them tips on how to edit their words, or compromise their beliefs, so as not to offend their culture or jeopardize the gospel influence. The gospel is by nature confrontational, as Christianity is in a war to the death with the kingdom of darkness.

    To the contrary, Jesus told them that because they were His, they didn’t belong to the world. They were transplanted vines, so it was inevitable that they would be hated by the world because of his name. Some would listen to their message, but many would respond with loathing towards God and his anointed Son. He warned them that they would be hated, rejected, marginalized, thrown out of the most cherished places in their culture (like the synagogue), and even killed.

    “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you…‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21 They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.”

     In just a few hours, Jesus would be arrested and led away from his frightened disciples. Soon they too would be persecuted, just as their Master was.

    We will never understand how important Christ’s promises are, unless we hear his warnings to his followers too. You can read them for yourself in John 15:18-16:1-4. If we view Jesus’s claim about the vine and the branches as a kind of platitude, we will miss the tremendous comfort of his promises in the midst of suffering.

    Mutual abiding.

    What are these promises? Just think for a moment of the three assurances Jesus gives to his disciples, and all future believers:

    1. “I am the vine; you are the branches…
    2. Remain in me, and I will remain in you…
    3. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you.”

    Christ offers believers firm assurance in a hard and hostile world. He focuses on the mutual relationship between Himself and his followers: Christians don’t only abide in their Master. He abides in us too.

    It makes me think of the mutual love relationship that Solomon describes between God and His Bride: “I am my beloved’s, and my beloved is mine” (Songs of Solomon 6:3)

    It’s not just about us abiding in Jesus, but also about Him indwelling us by his Holy Spirit. There’s nothing static or one-sided about this relationship. In no way is the responsibility for abiding only upon us as believers. Isn’t it a huge relief that it’s not all up to us to keep abiding?

    What a beautiful picture of the continued mutual relationship that we have with Jesus, even though He isn’t physically with us. But, there’s also an element of personal responsibility and effort on our part. Abiding is an act of the will on our part. We can either abide or go astray (John 16:1).

    Active abiding is necessary if we want to be fruitful in our faith. And fruitfulness is not an optional extra. Fruitfulness is the proof that we are His disciples.

    Bearing much fruit.

    This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.” (John 15:8)

    Jesus has appointed each one of us to bear fruit—fruit that will last (John 15:16). Not just an odd grape here and there, but “much fruit”! God’s work in us and our connection to Him will be demonstrated by fruit, perhaps by much fruit.

    But it’s easy to talk about bearing fruit in a vague way, isn’t it? What exactly did Christ mean when he spoke about bearing fruit? Obviously he was preparing his disciples for a life of evangelism and preaching the gospel to the world. But is fruit limited to gospel preaching and soul winning?

    Fruit pursuit.

    There is so much talk in our culture about fulfilling your purpose and ‘doing the work’. But being driven, shamed or guilt-tripped into building a legacy of good works is not from Christ. It leads only to condemnation and burnout.

    In my women’s Bible studies, I often hear sincere, godly Christians ask, “How do I know the good works God wants me to do? What if I get to the end of my life, and discover that I’ve missed my God-given purpose?” We all dread living a fruitless and barren life, don’t we? Perhaps that’s why Rick Warren’s “Purpose Driven Life” was such a hit.

    But this kind of ‘fruit pursuit’ can be a source of great stress and disappointment. It can be especially daunting to think of producing “much fruit”, when you’re surrounded by so much death, suffering, poverty and need, as we’ve seen in 2021.

    But Jesus said very simply, yet profoundly, “He who abides in me, and I in him, bears much fruit.”

    This is such a liberating assurance to believers who long to fulfill Christ’s commission to bear fruit that will last. Jesus says that good fruit is inevitable… on condition that we abide in Him and He in us. The Holy Spirit will produce the fruit in us.

    And so, we don’t have to stress out wondering where to find the good works that God has planned for us! The quality and quantity of our fruit, as well as the exact type of fruit, will differ from person to person. But there will always be good fruit produced, and reproduced, in a disciple who is abiding in Christ.

    We do not have to pursue good fruit like it’s a holy grail.

    In chapter 15, Jesus gives us a kaleidoscope of what Christian fruit looks like. They’re not spectacular fruits, but very practical and accessible, wherever we are, whatever our personality type. We could call them ‘low lying fruit’! Let’s do a simple inventory of good fruit from Christ’s own words in John 15:

    -Are you BELIEVING Jesus as the true vine, who has cleansed you from all your sin and unrighteousness (John 15:1; 3)? Are you trusting the vinedresser with his pruning shears, so that you see the fruit of the Spirit growing in your life? Then your faith is good fruit that gives glory to your Father in heaven.

    -Are you praying? Then your answered PRAYERS are good fruit (John 15:7; 16b).

    -Do you have JOY that transcends your circumstances and is contagious to others? Then your JOY is good fruit (John 15:11).

    -Are you laying down your own convenience to love other Christians in ordinary ways, like hospitality, helping, encouraging, giving, listening, visiting, caring? Then your LOVE is good fruit (John 15:12-13.)

    -Are you deeply ASSURED that Christ loves you? Do you remind others of His love for them too? Then your ASSURANCE is good fruit (John 15:9-10).

    -Are you reading the Bible and obeying what Christ shows you? Then your OBEDIENCE is good fruit (John 15:14; 10).

    -Are you representing God on earth? Are you engaging in evangelism in word and deed? Then your TESTIMONY is good fruit (John 15:27).

    According to Jesus, good fruit is made up of the ordinary, natural stuff of life. It can never be coerced, contrived or manufactured. It seldom leads to fame and fortune. Clusters of fruit simply appear when we are living out of the vine.

    The fruit that will last.

    Being Christ’s fruitful ambassadors reflects all the glory to our heavenly Father! (John 15:8) When a vine is heaving with juicy grapes, all credit goes to the gardener. God is glorified, because He sent the rain; He provided the sap, and He nurtured each tiny plant, pruning it to be even more productive.

    What a credit to the Lord of the harvest when Christians are bearing much fruit—the character and deeds of a godly life. It glorifies the Lord because He made it all happen!

    Lasting fruit is the fruit of Christian character which Paul spells out for us in Galatians 5: “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control. Against such things, there is no law.”

    The fruit of good relationships will last into eternity, long after our bodies have died and our so-called legacies are a distant memory.

    The Apostle Peter also lists the fruit of faith: Goodness, knowledge, self control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness and love. Peter says that if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, “they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of the Lord Jesus” (2 Peter 1:5-8). These traits are what make our ordinary days productive in God’s sight.

    Yes, it’s true that we’ve been called to live effective and productive lives. We are saved so that we can look more like Christ; grow in Christian character; make disciples; and serve others in love. But there’s nothing stressful or guilt-inducing about bearing the fruit of the vine. Kingdom fruit is not just another heavy load to bear.

    Already clean!

    Christian productivity isn’t patterned on what our culture defines as ‘doing the work’—those endless acts to atone for our guilt and be seen as righteous in man’s eyes. Jesus says we are already clean! (John 15:3). Just as Christ’s first disciples were already clean when they heard and received the gospel of grace.

    Without the sap of Christ’s love and forgiveness in our veins, we cannot possibly translate our good intentions into actions. If we do not bear fruit in our lives, maybe it’s because we have forgotten what Christ has done for us and are not depending on the power of the Holy Spirit.

    If we are wearing ourselves out with our efforts, or feeling pressured by others, perhaps it’s time to listen to the Counsellor’s voice and pray for His guidance and wisdom (John 15:26; 16:13.) Jesus called Him the Spirit of truth who will lead us into all truth.

    The only way to live a truly good and fruitful life is to stay close to Jesus, like a branch attached firmly to the vine. “Without me, you can do nothing” (John 15:5).

    Without me you can do nothing.

    As we go into the holiday season, may we remember Christ’s final words to his disciples. “Without me, you can do nothing!” Not even a single shrivelled grape, without His Spirit!

    Abiding in Christ is much more than believing in certain facts about Jesus or hanging from a tree like a sloth! It is drawing from the deep sap of a consistent, joyful relationship with our Master and friend (John 15:14). “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).

    Can you believe that Jesus actually calls us his “friends?” Friendship is the nature of our abiding relationship with Him.

    If our lives are attached to Christ, we will be able to walk through every adversity without sliding into despair. We will be able to manage prosperity, pleasure, good deeds and Christmas celebrations with a cheerful spirit, and without making them our idols. We will be empowered to live a good and fruitful life wherever God has placed us. But apart from Him, our best efforts will be fruitless.

    “All our sap and safety is from Christ. The bud of a good desire, the blossom of a good resolution, and the fruit of a good action, all come from him” (Trapp)

    Prayer

    Lord, this holiday season, help us to abide in you, as you abide in us. Thank you for the wonderful channels of grace you have provided so that we may remain in your love: Prayer, Scripture and gathering with God’s people. May we not neglect these precious gifts. Amen.


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  • Emotions Make Terrible Gods

    Emotions Make Terrible Gods

    Taking Control of Our Feelings
    Article by Greg Morse
    Staff writer, desiringGod.org

    “You cannot tell me how to feel,” the little girl shouted mid-tantrum.

    “I’m not telling you how to feel,” retorted the parent. “I am telling you how to behave. And how you are behaving is completely out of line.”

    Although the volume made the episode observable from almost anywhere in the store, it was the message that caught my attention. The assumption intrigued me: One cannot control another’s feelings. Although obvious enough, I began to suspect another underlying assumption: We cannot control our own feelings. While I was not brave enough to interpose myself between the she-bear and her cub to ask, I suspect the mother sought to govern her child’s behavior because that alone could be governed.

    Read further…

  • Race and Injustice: Our First Response

    Race and Injustice: Our First Response

    By Roydon Frost.

    “Weep with those who weep” Rom 12.15

    There is a piece of pastoral lore which says that when you first comfort someone who has suffered great loss, love expresses itself not in words, but in presence. And so when we hear the names Ahmaud Arbery, George Floyd, Christian Cooper and Collins Khosa, when we dare to look on the awful injustices these black men have suffered, when we witness the outrage abroad and here at home, our first duty is to be present in love, and to weep with those who weep.

    Now is not the time for explanations, reasons or opinions. Now is not the time for orthodoxy or Bible verses. It is not the time for head; it is the time for heart. We show our solidarity in feeling what our brothers and sisters are feeling. Job’s counsellors sat in the silence in the ashes for a full week before they responded to Job. Perhaps one reason they were false counsellors is that that didn’t stay quiet long enough.

    We need to sit in solidarity and let the bitter questions roll, unanswered. Why was Ahmaud Arbery considered a suspect? Why were private citizens acting as law enforcement officials? Why did it take seventy-four days and the leaking of a video before any arrests were made?

    For the policemen apprehending George Floyd, why was face down in handcuffs not enough? Why were the warnings of bystanders and the sixteen desperate pleas of Floyd himself not enough?

    Why was Amy Cooper so terrorised by someone asking her to leash her dog in a public park? Why did she phone 911, and why did she immediately speak the words “African American”?

    If the death of Collins Khosa hadn’t coincided with these events, would it have made headlines?

    The questions alone are enough to make you cry. And right now, they should.

  • We Need To Talk

    We Need To Talk

    By Martin Morrison

    “We need to talk”. When one of your family says that, you know it’s serious. You also know that you are probably  in trouble or in the spotlight. Well, it’s time to talk about this pandemic! This COVID-19 that has consumed our lives for the last two months. This Coronavirus that has irretrievably changed our lives and our world.

    I know that I am not a prophet or an expert of any kind. I know that right now there is a booming market for gloom! But we do need to talk. It seems abundantly clear that life will not be the same for a very long time. You are waiting for this frustrating lockdown to end, so that you can resume  life as before. You long for the normality of your average Saturday with your regular run or walk or game or drink. Your average Sunday at church with the interminable sermon, the lazy braai and afternoon nap. You even miss your average Monday morning blues! Well, the average is no more. It has gone. You need to face the fact. This is not just a pause button that has got stuck and needs fixing. Some of you have heard your doctor say, I have bad news, you have cancer. You will know what this is. This is déjà vu. You know exactly what I am talking about. Everything is now different.

    Plagues and sudden deaths used to be a relatively normal occurrence in the lives of people. Before the age of antibiotics and penicillin, life was much more fragile and cheap. Catching the average flu or ‘fever’ as they called it, was genuinely life-threatening in those days. However, modern medicine has protected us from many of these ravages, for which we thank God. He heals through miracles and medicine, but not always. The last massive plague to strike our world exactly 100 years ago was called the Spanish flu, in which over 50 million died. It spread throughout the world, and over 300,000 died in South Africa, which was 6% of our population.   50% of the South African population contracted Spanish Flu. Well, the plague is back. And, as in 1918, there seems to be no vaccine in sight. It must run its course.

    What does that mean for you? Well firstly, you need to talk to yourself and tell yourself the truth. It’s not going to go away. Of course, the lockdown will eventually go away. A vaccine may be discovered. But, for us living in South Africa, the socio-economic effects and consequences won’t. It’s for real. It’s not a dream. Face up to it. The past season of life has passed. The next season has started, with or without your consent. The new season may well be better, but it won’t be the same. It will be different.

    There’s nothing wrong with crying your tears. The birth of Jesus was accompanied by a massacre of children and tears. Jesus himself wept at the graveside of his friend Lazarus. Jesus’ death was accompanied by cries and tears. This world is not a stranger to tears. On the contrary, the curse has wrought havoc since Adam, and has not yet been lifted. It will be lifted, but not yet. COVID-19 is just another plague added to a long list of plagues that has ravaged this broken world. And it may very well not be the last one.

    Secondly, you need to make a very sober and critical decision. How will I respond to this new environment? I may lose a friend, a loved one or even my own life. I may lose my job. I may lose my financial security. I may lose my home. I may need to relocate to another province. I may need to move back with my parents. I may need to move in with my children and grandchildren. I may lose my car. I may lose my independence. You do not know what awaits you in the days and months ahead. The important decision is this. How will I respond? This may sound like amateur psychology, but it’s not. It’s wisdom.

    A very conscious choice needs to be made. Either I will be no different from the millions of others who are victims, or I will respond as a Christian. A victim is someone who is always blaming others, always blaming the circumstances, always blaming the authorities, always negative, always complaining that the world is not devoted to making them happy!  Rarely will you recognise victimhood in yourself, but you do recognise it in others. They can be very tiresome. You almost wonder if they find some perverse pleasure in rehearsing their woes. Concerning yourself, you will need to ask others whether you sound like a victim. Pray and ask them to tell you the truth.

    A Christian however, not only believes in God but believes that God has spoken through the Bible. A Christian has no doubt that a supernatural God has spoken through a supernatural book with a supernatural message.  And what the Bible says is true. True truth. God speaks through Paul and says, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28). Please take note. Not some things. Not most things. No, all things. That’s a shock when you consider the pandemic!

    A Christian believes what Hebrews teaches us about this world. Hebrews tells us that this world is not our home. This is not our country. We are foreigners living in a foreign country. We are exiles in exile. We are living in tents, awaiting a home in a city whose foundation is designed and built by God (Hebrews 11: 8 – 16). So why are we surprised that we feel like exiles? Why are we surprised that we want to go home? Why are we surprised that a gust of wind is catching the guy ropes and canvas of the tent?  Is God not blowing the wind, so that we may loosen our affections to this temporary world and not become too attached to this foreign land?

    John Piper, having been diagnosed with cancer, wrote a book called, Don’t Waste your Cancer. For an unbeliever this is an utterly bizarre statement. Yet not for a believer. Later he wrote an article entitled Ten Ways not to Waste Your Cancer. Let me quote, “You will waste your cancer if you do not believe God designed it for you. It will not do to say that God only uses our cancer, but does not design it. What God permits he permits for a reason. And that reason is his design. If God foresees molecular developments becoming cancer, he can stop it or not. If he does not, he has a purpose. Since he is infinitely wise, it is right to call this purpose a design. If you don’t believe God designed your cancer for you, you will waste it”.  The principle is the same. Don’t waste the pandemic. One of Piper’s other reasons not to waste your cancer is, You will waste your cancer if you believe it is a curse and not a gift. But you will have to read that for yourself!

    Again John Piper writes, “The aim of God in our cancer is to knock the props out from under our hearts so that we rely utterly on him. Cancer does not win if you die. It wins if you fail to cherish Christ”.

    So what does all of that mean? It means that you need to take yourself by the scruff of your neck and talk to yourself.  Preferably do it when no-one else is around! “John, Jane, Nomsa, God has placed me in SA at this time, in this place, for a purpose. I am not here by accident. The pandemic is not here by accident. God has knocked all the props out from under my heart so that I might rely utterly on him. Surely, learning to depend utterly on God is a very good thing for me. About time I’d say!”

    Now that God has my full attention and I am depending utterly on him, I need to be very clear that God has a distinct purpose for me at this time, in this place, in this pandemic. The purpose is not a secret or a mystery. No, God has already made it clear that whatever the situation I find myself in, I am to be God’s agent for him and his kingdom. It’s not about me at all! I am called to be real light and real salt, like I have never thought of before. Like Esther, I need to realize that God has called me to be his instrument of Gospel ministry “….for such a time as this” (Esther 4: 14). What an enormous privilege, to be living in South Africa in 2020 in this pandemic! What an enormous privilege to be specially appointed by God to be a source of hope and life as a Christian and not another victim! What an enormous privilege to be another “Esther” and to be God’s ambassador in this foreign land!

    Oh yes, and remember that when I seek his righteousness, ironically I will have his joy. And others will see it, and wonder why?

    O Lord. Help me to forget myself. Help me to get over myself. Teach me the gift of self-forgetfulness. Help me to remember every day, that I am here to serve God and to serve others. Help me to understand that I am here in SA in 2020 for such a time as this. Help me to show the world what it means to be a Christian and not a victim. Help me to show the world what it actually means to belong to the God of the Bible who is Lord and Saviour and Sovereign, and that he is in total control. Amen.   

    For further reading: John Piper. Coronavirus and Christ; Don’t Waste your Life; Don’t Waste your Cancer. All available on Amazon Kindle.

  • Praying with Jeremiah

    Praying with Jeremiah

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    19 Remember my affliction and my wanderings,
    the wormwood and the gall!
    20 My soul continually remembers it
    and is bowed down within me.
    21 But this I call to mind,
    and therefore I have hope:

    22 The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
    his mercies never come to an end;
    23 they are new every morning;
    great is your faithfulness.
    24 “The Lord is my portion,” says my soul,
    “therefore I will hope in him.”

                                        Lamentations 3.19-24

    How do we pray when we can’t pray? How do we speak to God when we are stung speechless by circumstance? How do we find the words when our tongues are thick and paralysed by the mix of angst and rage and shock that surges in our blood? How do we summon a voice when silence is all we have inside? How do we pray when we can’t pray?

    The prayer of Lamentations 3 was written and prayed in the aftermath of the Babylonian invasion (587BC). The aspirations of the Jews as the covenant people of God were reduced to a smouldering ash heap. It was a fitting symbol of their spiritual reality; it also came at great physical cost. The people starved to death; the army fled; the king had his eyes put out; the nation was humiliated and exiled.  We understand why the writer would want to cry to God, but how did he find the words?

    He offers us a very simple pattern: Call your pain to mind; call the LORD to mind; hope in Him.

    Call your pain to mind

    The writer’s soul is tormented by the bitterness of his experiences (“the wormwood and the gall”), and the torture is relentless (v20). He may have felt smothered and trapped, indeed his soul was downcast (v20), but he does not collapse into himself. He begins by inviting the LORD into his world of pain. He asks him to “remember” his affliction in the same way his own soul “remembers it continually” (v19-20). In this, is the wonder of lament. Lament is, by its mere presence in the Bible, an invitation from God Almighty to tell Him how we really feel. We are not called to censor any of it, or to gather ourselves before we enter His presence, we are simply called to come as we are and lay it all bare before Him.

    Call the LORD to mind

    At some point we will have exhausted all we have to say. And then we will lift our eyes to see the One who is listening. For the writer, that point comes in v21. In v21 he literally “brings his heart back”. There is a wilful turning in his contemplation. Having spilt all the pain, he stops to consider the LORD himself (v22-23). He ponders a love that never ceases, an undeserved love that endures all of our rejection and still persists. He ponders the mercy of God, a mercy that re-invents itself every morning as the LORD finds new ways to be kind to us. He ponders a God who is always faithful to his promises, and never tires in his commitment to the faithless. He ponders all this and his conclusion is simple: “therefore I have hope”.

    Hope in him

    As the writer pours out the affliction of his soul, and then turns his gaze to the LORD, he discovers that a soul which was mute in its suffering, a soul which simply could not pray, has once again found its voice (v24): “’The LORD is my portion’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in him.’” The writer, who stands in the rubble of Jerusalem with no prospects, can confidently proclaim his inheritance. It is an inheritance, a hope for the future, that cannot be touched by circumstance. It is the LORD himself.

    In these few verses we have a pattern for lament: call your pain to mind; call the LORD to mind; hope in Him. We have a prayer to pray when we just can’t pray. We have a map from the desert to the living water. But we who read this prayer this side of the cross have so much more than a map. In Jesus, we have a friend who has gone before us, and will show us the way.

    [1] The author of Lamentations is unknown, but church tradition is that the work was written by the prophet Jeremiah.[/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

  • Why Christ’s calling matters more than our occupation

    Why Christ’s calling matters more than our occupation

    [fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][fusion_text]Around 2600 years ago, the prophet Jeremiah wrote:

    “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom
        or the strong boast of their strength
        or the rich boast of their riches,
    but let the one who boasts boast about this:
        that they have the understanding to know me,
    that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness,
        justice and righteousness on earth,
        for in these I delight,”
    declares the Lord. (Jer 9:23-24 ESV)

    This is surely one of the most counter-cultural messages ever recorded! It’s hard to resist our culture’s creed that says we should be doing something bigger, better, somewhere else. Or the self help ideologies that reveal the secret to unleash our inner greatness. The promise is that if we change our mindset, we will change our circumstances. And if we change our circumstances, all our problems will dissolve. After all, what can stand against the power of wealth, intelligence and physical strength?

    Cultural gurus continue to feed the pride, discontent and restlessness that has marked humanity since the Fall. An Amazon bestseller has the sub-title, How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life.  The implication is clearly that your current life isn’t too great! Another by a self-made musical superstar is titled, It’s all in your own head— “a reminder that it starts with YOU, to believe in yourself, and to get out of your own way”. Eckart Tolle’s latest book promises Awakening to our Life’s Purpose and Anthony Ferris gives us the secrets to working a 4-hour workweek in Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich. Even in the so-called ‘Christian’ category, we are faced with Soar (TD Jakes); The Power of Favour; I declare and Ten Powerful thoughts for a successful, abundant life”(Joel Osteen).

    As a Christian, it can be hard to remain rooted in God’s priorities for our lives, to be content wherever He has placed us and to serve Christ faithfully in the small, mundane things which make up our current circumstances. That’s why Paul’s words to the first century Christians in Corinth are so apt and freeing for believers today. Today’s text hushes the restless sirens and reminds us that our calling in Christ matters infinitely more than our external status:

    Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches. 18 Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision. 19 For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God. 20 Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called. 21 Were you a bondservant when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.) 22 For he who was called in the Lord as a bondservant is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a bondservant of Christ. 23 You were bought with a price; do not become bondservants of men. 24 So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God…

    29 This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none, 30 and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods, 31 and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away. (1 Cor 7:17-24; 29-31 ESV).

    Outward circumstances versus inner calling

    Like us, the Corinthian Christians needed to grasp that their identity and significance was securely anchored in their Christian calling— not in cultural and religious symbols or social status. “Don’t be fooled by your rank!” says Paul, “You are free to serve Christ as Lord in and through every season and station of life—even if you are a slave, the least esteemed of all.” (1 Cor 7:19; 21; 22).

    This is a truly liberating message for Christians in a FOMO culture that assumes we are always stuck in the wrong place, with the wrong people, on the wrong side of the track! Christ’s calling re-sets our priorities and revolutionises our lives from the inside out. When the purpose of our lives is to honour, serve and speak for Christ, every job, no matter how menial, is significant Christian work. If God has placed you where you are, there will be opportunities to serve him there.

    Paul applies this general principle to the two extreme social and religious distinctions of his time: Circumcision and Slavery. His answer to these two cultural boulders was radical in first century Corinth: Paul dismisses them as irrelevant! (1 Cor 7:19; 21) All that matters is serving Christ and being obedient to Him wherever God has placed them. They are first and foremost Christians.

    What a shock to the Jewish believer’s mindset, which regarded circumcision as everything! It was the difference between being an insider and an outsider. The other half of the congregants were Gentile Greeks, who looked down on the circumcised. Similarly, a slave had the lowliest status of all. Slaves were the epitome of insignificance, yet Paul says their work and identity are also shaped by their calling in Christ, not by their status or job.

    To change or not to change

    Paul’s general rule to remain in the condition in which we are called does not mean that change is always wrong (1 Cor 7:17; 20; 24). In fact, in verse 21b, Paul expressly tells slaves to use whatever opportunities they have to buy their freedom and improve their lot in life.

    We also know that Christ’s call demands that we completely shed an illegal or immoral life, which may mean a career change or a big move for some Christians (1 Cor 6:11; Luke 19:8).

    Paul himself encourages us to change our style and methods of ministry to reach diverse people for the gospel (1 Cor 9:19-24).

    Good stewardship of our gifts and opportunities leaves no space for an attitude of complacency or fatalism as Christians. We are always called to make choices with wisdom and prayer. But Paul’s message is clear: When Christ calls us, He is our new Master and we belong to Him wherever we find ourselves. We are freed from sin’s bondage and from cultural practices that have been fulfilled in Christ (Acts 15; Rom 4:9-11; Gal 5:2-4; Col 2:11). The only obstacle to serving and obeying Christ is sin—Not our external circumstances.

    Swimming against the tide

    I consider this passage as one of my favourites because it has often reminded me that the Christian life is simple and liberating. We are bondservants of Christ, not of men! Bought at a price and responsible to Him alone! (1 Cor 7:22; 23-24 NIV) When we serve Christ, God leads us with cords of kindness and ties of love, like a loving parent leads his child (Hos 11:4). His fetters always lead to true freedom and flourishing.

    I turned 50 this year and have spent most of my married life as a stay-at-home mom. I’m now in my twentieth year of school lifts, lunch boxes, homework and exams! It’s impossible to quantify the tears I’ve dried, conversations, trips made to the ER and desperate prayers I’ve prayed for our kids. Yet sometimes in my insecure moments, I’ve felt that I don’t measure up to our culture’s yardstick of success and have wished for a career, title and income to prove my significance. Our third child is now in matric and in her last week before finals, the entire grade dressed up for their future vocation. Many doctors, lawyers and accountants arrived at school, but my daughter and her friends were dressed in an array of outfits, from ultra casual, to baggy tracksuits and slinky gym pants! They didn’t represent any recognisable career category, so I asked them who they were: “Oh, can’t you see that we’re the ‘coffee shop moms’!? You know, the ones who don’t go to work and spend their day at pilates, drinking skinny lattes and things like that!” They thought they were hilarious, but I sincerely hoped they didn’t tar all stay-at-home moms with the same brush!

    The truth is that whatever our occupation or status, most of us feel restless from time to time, wondering if we’re in the right place and doing the right thing. We sometimes confuse our occupation with our calling as Christ’s bondservant. At 18 we worry that we are choosing the wrong career path, and from midlife onwards we wake up in a cold sweat worrying that the grains of sand have finally slipped through the hourglass! Like our culture, Christians also long for significance and fear not being useful or wasting our lives.

    Christians are also tempted to blame our circumstances for not living for Christ in the here and now: My family, my employer, my unemployment, my financial situation, my depression, my sickness, my spouse, my education, my career choice, my singleness, my failure, my local church, my emotional baggage…

    All of these and many others are possible excuses for not serving Christ and being discontent with our lot in life.

    But if Jesus is our master, His yoke is easy. All He asks is that we remain faithful in the small things he has entrusted to us, wherever we are. He calls us to know and love Him, to exercise kindness and justice, and to walk obediently in whatever life He has assigned to us. We are free to ‘use’ the things of this world, but not to become ‘engrossed’ in them, “for this world in its present form is passing away” (1 Cor 7:31 NIV). Perhaps that’s why Paul reminded Timothy:

    “Godliness with contentment is great gain” (1 Tim 6:6).

    Worship

    Listen to one of my favourite songs by Casting Crowns, The Very Next Thing.

    Lord, help me to trust your rule in the life you have assigned to me, and to live for you wherever I am and whatever I do. Forgive me for my grumbling and restlessness, and fill me instead with your Spirit, so that I am content and joyful in any and every circumstance. Fix my eyes on Jesus so that I will seize every opportunity to show others who He is. In Jesus’ name.[/fusion_text][/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container][fusion_builder_container background_color=”#ffffff” background_image=”” background_parallax=”none” enable_mobile=”no” parallax_speed=”0.3″ background_repeat=”no-repeat” background_position=”left top” video_url=”” video_aspect_ratio=”16:9″ video_webm=”” video_mp4=”” video_ogv=”” video_preview_image=”” overlay_color=”” overlay_opacity=”0.5″ video_mute=”yes” video_loop=”yes” fade=”no” border_size=”0px” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” padding_top=”20″ padding_bottom=”20″ padding_left=”5%” padding_right=”5%” hundred_percent=”yes” equal_height_columns=”yes” hide_on_mobile=”no” menu_anchor=”” class=”” id=””][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_3″ last=”no” spacing=”yes” center_content=”yes” hide_on_mobile=”no” background_color=”” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” background_position=”center center” hover_type=”none” link=”” border_position=”all” border_size=”0px” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” padding=”” margin_top=”” margin_bottom=”” animation_type=”0″ animation_direction=”down” animation_speed=”0.1″ animation_offset=”” class=”” id=””][fusion_imageframe lightbox=”no” gallery_id=”” lightbox_image=”” style_type=”none” hover_type=”none” bordercolor=”” bordersize=”0px” borderradius=”0″ stylecolor=”” align=”none” link=”” linktarget=”_self” animation_type=”0″ animation_direction=”down” animation_speed=”0.1″ animation_offset=”” hide_on_mobile=”no” class=”” id=””] [/fusion_imageframe][/fusion_builder_column][fusion_builder_column type=”2_3″ last=”yes” spacing=”yes” center_content=”no” hide_on_mobile=”no” background_color=”” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” background_position=”left top” hover_type=”none” link=”” border_position=”all” border_size=”0px” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” padding=”2%” margin_top=”2%” margin_bottom=”2%” animation_type=”0″ animation_direction=”down” animation_speed=”0.1″ animation_offset=”” class=”” id=””][fusion_title size=”2″ content_align=”left” style_type=”default” sep_color=”” margin_top=”” margin_bottom=”” class=”” id=””]Receive our latest devotion in your Inbox[/fusion_title][fusion_code]Q2xpY2sgZWRpdCBidXR0b24gdG8gY2hhbmdlIHRoaXMgY29kZS4=[/fusion_code][/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container][fusion_builder_container background_color=”#ffffff” background_image=”” background_parallax=”none” enable_mobile=”no” parallax_speed=”0.3″ background_repeat=”no-repeat” background_position=”left top” video_url=”” video_aspect_ratio=”16:9″ video_webm=”” video_mp4=”” video_ogv=”” video_preview_image=”” overlay_color=”” overlay_opacity=”0.5″ video_mute=”yes” video_loop=”yes” fade=”no” border_size=”0px” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” padding_top=”20″ padding_bottom=”20″ padding_left=”5%” padding_right=”5%” hundred_percent=”yes” equal_height_columns=”yes” hide_on_mobile=”no” menu_anchor=”” class=”” id=””][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][fusion_title size=”2″ content_align=”left” style_type=”default” sep_color=”” margin_top=”” margin_bottom=”” class=”” id=””]Other devotions from the God Walk…[/fusion_title][/fusion_builder_column][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][fusion_recent_posts layout=”default” hover_type=”none” columns=”3″ number_posts=”6″ offset=”” cat_slug=”devotion” exclude_cats=”” thumbnail=”yes” title=”yes” meta=”no” excerpt=”yes” excerpt_length=”0″ strip_html=”yes” animation_type=”0″ animation_direction=”down” animation_speed=”0.1″ animation_offset=”” class=”” id=””][/fusion_recent_posts][fusion_text]– more devotions –[/fusion_text][/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

  • What we all need to know in an #enoughisenough world

    What we all need to know in an #enoughisenough world

    [fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][fusion_text]By Lauren Maggs.

    In the past few weeks, our country has been rocked by violence in many quarters. One of the areas of focus has been the public outpouring of grief regarding gender-based violence. People all over South Africa have been expressing their fear and heartbreak. They feel helpless, vulnerable and angry.
    What does God want us to know in the light of all this?

    1. God sees and knows
    When faced with human sin and evil, we can often wonder if God sees or knows. We can question whether he is concerned. The Bible assures us that nothing goes unnoticed by God. He knows every event, every motive, every thought. “The eyes of the LORD are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good.” (Proverbs 15:3) God is intimately aware of all that is happening on earth. Nothing escapes his notice. We have not been forgotten by God.

    2. God mourns over sin
    We read in Psalm 78:40 about how God felt about the sin of his people “How often they rebelled against him in the wilderness and grieved him in the wasteland.” Their sin grieved God. We also know that Jesus mourned over the death of Lazarus. Death is the result of sin and is proof of the brokenness of our world. God is heartbroken over the brokenness of the world. Psalm 56:8 tells us that God sees and knows our heartbreak, saving our tears. God has not left the world without a remedy for the brokenness. He sent is only Son to live in this broken world and to face the consequence of sin head on. He is not indifferent about sin. He mourns over it and has worked in history to defeat it.

    3. God will deal with sin and injustice
    God is a God of justice. “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; steadfast love and faithfulness go before you” (Psalm 89:14). It is an essential aspect of his reign. That means that he will not leave sin unpunished. We know that he sent Jesus to take the punishment for sin in the place of all those who trust in Jesus. We also know that ultimate judgement awaits all who have not turned to Christ. Peter reminds us that this is justice is metered out with extreme kindness. ‘The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.’ (2 Peter 3:9)

    4. God can use evil for good
    God is bigger than evil. He is sovereign over it and completely able to use it for his great purposes. We clearly see this in the story of Joseph told in Genesis. Although many horrible things happened to Joseph, he was able to say to brothers who had sold him into slavery, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good, to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” (Genesis 50:20) God is in no way intimidated or taken by surprise by human evil. Nothing we do can thwart his good plans for his people.

    5. God is the ultimate answer
    Our hope for change does not ultimately lie in a reformed society or a reformed justice system. Our hope lies in God. The truth is, all people are sinners. Men and women. Rapists and justice advocates. Broken people cannot be our ultimate hope. Only a perfect God, who sent his Son down as a perfect man, can help us. We must put our ultimate hope in him. We can post of social media and march and ask more of our government – it’s right for Christians to fight for justice and peace. However, we must not be fooled into thinking that the ultimate answer is in any human establishment. Our ultimate hope is always and only in a renewed Heaven and earth when Jesus returns. We pray that he would find many who have turned to him when he comes back. If God is our ultimate hope, we have a reason to not fall into utter despair and hopelessness. We know where our hope is.

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  • Some Surprising, Uncomfortable, Unpopular (But biblical) Truths About Discipline.

    Some Surprising, Uncomfortable, Unpopular (But biblical) Truths About Discipline.

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    Discipline gets bad press in our culture. If you say the word “discipline” people hear “corporal punishment”. They think of what used to happen before 1994 if you didn’t do your maths homework. In this day and age, being pro-discipline is almost like being pro-tyranny. The concept of “church discipline” is especially confusing. The church is supposed to be about love and love is about affirmation and freedom, so “church discipline” is an oxymoron. Discipline’s offence to the culture actually runs deeper than we might think. But, as it turns out, the problem is not with discipline, it’s with the culture.

    1. Discipline is the core business of the church
    Jesus said, “Go and make disciples”. It’s no accident that the English word “disciple” shares a root with the word “discipline”. Both orbit around the concepts of learning, training and growing. A disciple is the agent and discipline is the process. It follows that Calvin would view discipline as one of three marks of an authentic church (along with word and sacrament!). Discipline is not just right at the heart of what the church does, it’s right at the heart of what the church is. If that’s the case, it shouldn’t surprise us the Bible is all about discipline.

    2. The Bible is all about discipline
    “All Scripture is God-breathed and useful for…” what? Discipline! “Teaching”, “reproof”, “correction”, “training” (2 Tim 3.16) – these are discipline words and ideas. All of the Bible is useful for… discipline. It’s not just Matt 18, it’s “All Scripture…” Whenever the word is proclaimed in the power of the Spirit, God’s people are being disciplined, and disciples are being formed. That has to broaden and enrich our view of what discipline is. Discipline has got to be about more than punishing those who step out of line. It is. But why?

    3. God is a disciplinarian
    “NO!!! Don’t say that! People will run a mile!” Your problem isn’t with me, it’s with the Bible: “The Lord disciplines the one he loves” (Prov 3.12; Heb 12.6). God is a disciplinarian. But that shouldn’t just change our view of God. It should change our view of discipline. We can be sure that discipline is good and right and profitable because the Lord himself does it. His motives are always pure, and His ends are always perfect.

    4. Discipline is love
    “The Lord disciplines the one he loves…God is treating you as sons” (Heb 12.6-7). Fatherly love is the motive of God’s discipline (Deut 8.5). Brotherly love should be the motive of ours (Gal 6.1-2). The idea that discipline and love exclude each other is a cultural fiction. God is love, He defines love and He disciplines those He loves. There is no true love without discipline. There is no true discipline without love.

    5. Discipline is the way to the good life
    The Father’s discipline is motivated by love and so it has our ultimate good as its end. The goal is to know Him (Jer 24.7) and enter into the fullness of his blessed presence forever (Deut 8.1-10). There is no price too high to pay for such a blessing. As GK Chesterton said, “all noble things have to be paid for.” Should we expect the most noble of things, the Christian character, to be exempt? No. The route to the glory of eternity runs through the light and momentary afflictions of this life (2 Cor 4.17). The name of that road is discipline. Christ has walked it before us, so that we are free to follow after.

    6. Discipline is both hard and soft
    If the Father’s discipline has our ultimate good in mind, ours should be no different. Church discipline, even in its most severe forms (1 Cor 5.5a), always pursues the ultimate goal of restoration (1 Cor 5.5b). And so church discipline can be both hard and soft, at the same time. It is hard in that it can end in casting someone out of the community, but it is soft in that it always begins with a private word, is tempered by a spirit of gentleness and humility throughout, and operates, from start to finish, in the hope of repentance and reconciliation (Gal 6.1-6).

    7. Discipline is act of grace
    Instead of pretending human nature is essentially good and endlessly affirming each other in our sin, biblical love offers discipline. Discipline faces up to the human condition and loves its neighbor enough to speak the truth. Discipline is the relentless offer of Christ in the face of sin, and so discipline is an act of grace. It’s God’s gift to sinners. We don’t deserve it. It is too good for us. It is too kind to us. We should be left to ourselves: ignored, abandoned, forsaken. But God in his mercy disciplines us. Discipline is God’s gift to us. Exercised in full dependence on God and in full solidarity with fellow sinners, it can, and should, be our gift to one another.
    Oh that we would be true churches – churches known for their discipline!

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