Category: Society and me

  • Men are Trash. #…?

    Men are Trash. #…?

    Sometimes it’s better to say nothing. This may well be one of those times. Men in this country have been doing unspeakable things to women. And not just in the last news cycle – for decades. Our women have been carrying this country on their backs and all they have been getting in return is abuse and oppression of the most heinous and degrading kind. They have had enough. And they don’t need another man to tell them it is so, or what’s what. So that is not what this is. This I address to the men. A Christian man speaking to his brothers, quietly, with his head held low. I invite any woman to listen in if she so choses. And I welcome her opinion as one of those we have disregarded for too long, to our shame and ignorance. But I fully respect and understand if she wants no part of it.

    #Men are trash.

    No excuse, no justification, no counter-arguments. And this is not a new idea. The bible has been saying this very thing for thousands of years, and in more than 140 characters. In our “enlightenment” we have lost the concept of sin, and with it any hope of self-understanding. We’ve lost any grasp of the basic human condition, and so all our social problems reduce to “us vs them”. How sad that we are turning to twitter to remind us who we really are.

    #Does God know?

    God knows men are trash. It matters to him. It grieves our Father to see his daughters mistreated in any way. It makes him very, very angry. And that anger he pours out on men, by executing their leader in the most shameful way imaginable: crucifixion. Men get what they deserve at the cross. It’s true that both men and women were complicit in the human rejection of God. But the final responsibility lies with men. And so…

    #The man.

    I think part of the reason our women are so rightly outraged is this: it’s not just that things shouldn’t be as they are, but also the profound sense that things weren’t always as they are. God made humanity in the dual image of male and female and we were very good, together. There was harmony in the relationship. There was a very brief time in human history when men didn’t abuse physical advantage to dominate and coerce and compensate for our shame and impotence. We’ve lost all that. We abdicated responsibility. We’ve been doing it ever sense. BUT JESUS. He exercised infinite power in humble service. He took full responsibility. He took it all the way to the cross. He treated women with nothing but the deepest love and care. He rescued manhood from the trash-heap. He has shown us what it is, and what it’s for.

    #…?

    What next? What are we going to do about it? Our women are angry. They are right to be angry. We need to let them be angry. We have broken their trust in so many ways. We need to win it back. It’s going to be a long road. We take the first step by acknowledging our guilt. And then we take the lead, not in bullying, coercion or domination, but in humble service of our sisters, in the hope of reconciliation. And when we fail, as we will, we need to turn to Jesus for the grace and strength to be men, and carry on. Jesus Christ has rescued manhood from the trash-heap. We cannot continue to live as if he hasn’t.
    By Roydon Frost, with gracious, loving input from Leah Maseko and Blaque Nubon.

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  • Drowning in the Deep

    Drowning in the Deep

    5 Tips for Taking on your First Job

    When I think back to my first job, I shudder.

    Everyone else in the company seemed to be coping, but me. I felt like I had been thrown in the deep end and I could not swim. I was drowning. My response to my own situation was, ‘I’ll just work harder and put in more hours’, yet somehow I still stuffed up and still failed to do things right. I’d attribute my failures to others by blaming my colleagues for things like projects not being done on time, but deep inside, I knew I was to blame.

    Your experience might be different to mine; in fact, you might have excelled. The good news is, through this struggle I learned some valuable lessons that I think you too could gain some value from.

    1. The boss is not thinking about you

    This started from the bedroom for me. I’d wake every morning, look in the cupboard and say to myself, ‘I need to look awesome’. There was a ladder that needed climbing and I was going to do everything I could to show the boss that I’m the perfect climber. I went to work at 7am when work started at 8 and I was in the office till 6:30pm, even when the office closed at 5. The trouble is, most of my time was going to the wrong thing. I was constantly checking how I worded my emails, how I presented myself in meetings and often would twist words to make it appear like I was on top of things. I wanted my boss to say, ‘Now there goes a model employee; trust worthy, respectable and definitely needed in our company’.

    I later learned that the boss was not interested in me, but interested in a job being done. They had a product and I was employed in my role to help that product make a profit. The moment I switched the interest from me to growing the product, I naturally became the person the company needed. Just as well! Biblically I knew I couldn’t be perfect (Romans 1) and now I didn’t have to be.

    2. Don’t think 9 – 5

    Some people will advise you when you start working that you’re doing too much if you have to work past 5pm. That may be true for someone who has been in the game for years, but you are starting out. You will be slow and not only that, you will make tons of mistakes as you work out your role and the company (And very often the industry) that you are in. You need to make time.

    Having said this, it’s not always easy to make time available. Especially with kids, family, church and friends being demanding. My suggestion would be to let people know that the next two years you are going to be grafting at your job. This may mean, shock horror, that you lower your commitment in church and to your family. Don’t miss understand me as you need to be a part of church and you can’t give up on your family, but for a period of your life you need to sacrifice so that you can build a good foundation for your career. This will help your family and church in the long run.

    3. Only say ‘I’m not right for the job’ two years in

    If you’ve just started working and are feeling like throwing in the towel, ask yourself how long you’ve been there. If it’s less than 2 years, then don’t give up. On average it takes two years for you to really understand what you do. Not only that, it takes 2 years for the company to really see your potential. Your first year will most likely be filled with mistakes and errors and your company will see your first year as training. It’s your first job, they’re not going to expect you to be the model employee in 6 months. Once your first year is over, you will be capable of taking on more and will reach your sweet spot your second year in.

    4. Share your frustrations with older Christians

    Part of my biggest problem was that I swam alone. I felt like I had to take on every challenge myself and I didn’t want to share it as I didn’t want to burden others or look bad. At my church I had a world of older men and woman who had walked this road before, yet I never chatted to them. How closed minded was I? I would have saved a ton of frustration had I just sort their wisdom!

    5. God is the ultimate CEO, in him is true purpose

    Quite often I felt like my Christianity was experienced only on the weekends, bible study or when I did my quite time. During my working hours, it was me on my own. It was not that I didn’t want God to enter the office with me, I just didn’t know how to bring him in. It was when I understood that God created, and is still running, the world that I realised there was a CEO above my CEO. A boss above my boss.

    The company is not my bosses, it’s God’s company and he will do with it what he pleases. Knowing this I sort God’s word and saw that he’s not opposed to revenue (Romans 13:7), he desires hard work (1 Thessalonians 4), I am made in his image as a creative worker (Genesis 1) and wants people to receive profit (Proverbs 21:5). Every morning I gave my first 30 minutes to a ‘meeting with the CEO’ and told the Lord of my plans for the day. I even included stats as it made me take the meeting seriously and I prayed for my plans to improve on the product through my position. Doing this gave me purpose greater than that of a salary or job satisfaction, I was on mission for the Lord by working hard in his company.

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  • How Should a Christian Respond to Racism?

    How Should a Christian Respond to Racism?

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    We do need to talk about it.

    The topic is obviously very sensitive at present in South Africa. (When I use the word Black it includes Indians and Coloureds who equally suffered under apartheid).

    The Heart Issue

    Racism has been bubbling in South Africa for the last couple of years culminating in an explosion at the beginning of 2016.
    Penny Sparrow, Justin Van Vuuren, Velaphi Khumalo – all have apologised, but I wonder whether what they said doesn’t reflect what they really think.

    We are all sinners, we are all racist – some are worse than others, but by and large we are all racist because we are all sinners. We all in one way or the other think our ”people” are superior to others. It’s across the world and in all our hearts. I need to start and say I’m a racist, I have racist thoughts from time-to-time and I need to repent. Unless we come to this point we will not be able to begin to deal with the problem.

    The Real Issue

    There have been millions of social media comments. Some people are trying to get 15 minutes of fame, others have been sucked into the tyranny of social media.
    In my opinion, speaking as a white Christian, underlying this recent outburst of anger is a deep seated anger and frustration of black people which says that white people don’t understand and don’t care about the dreadful injustices, suffering and inequalities of almost 400 years of racism and apartheid. It seems to me that black people quite rightly feel that after 21 years, whites just don’t get it.

    I totally agree with journalist Max du Preez: “Here’s the bottom line: we whites didn’t honour the pact we made with the rest of the nation in 1994. We only honoured those parts of our constitution that were in our interest”.

    I totally agree with journalist Justice Malala who is no respecter of persons: “Many whites ask: what do you want us to do? Actually nothing. Just don’t denigrate the pain, or try to make the good old days seem better than they were. They were worse than you can imagine”.

    The Real History

    It is wrong for me as a white man to say I understand the ravages of apartheid. I don’t. Take education. At times during the apartheid years R644 per annum was spent by the State per white child, but only R42 per black child. In 1950, most black children got 4 years of education with only 2.6% going to high school. Can you imagine what all that has done to our country? Some black children would only see their fathers once a year, because they stayed in the rural areas and their fathers worked in the cities. Families were prohibited from living with a husband or father because of the Group Areas Act. Can you imagine what that has done to marriages and family life in our country?

    The fact of the matter is that we lived in a parallel universe; two peoples in one country; two nations in one country. And by and large, us whites have never really understood those injustices and inequalities. By and large, we don’t get it and that’s why many black people are so angry when they are called “monkeys”.

    The Real Antidote

    This blog is for Christians. I cannot speak for non-Christians or expect them to act like Christians. The antidote is found in the Bible, it’s found in Christ, it’s found in facing the truth.

    Two principles:

    a) Why should Christians deal with race?

    Matthew 5: 13 – We are salt and light – some say that the church should not deal with politics. However, politics has to do with people, with society, with how we govern ourselves as a nation. The Bible is, and should be, deeply concerned with all of life. Jesus in Matthew 5 is talking to Christians, we are in the world, we are to be involved in the world, we are to make a difference in the world. We can never say these are not our concerns. Where there is darkness, we are meant to be the light, to dissipate the darkness. That’s why we need Christians to be Christians in every area of life – politics, education, business, the arts etc. Where there is exploitation, injustice, we need to stand up for the truth and justice.

    Salt in the times of Jesus was used to prevent things from putrefying. We are to prevent things from going bad. Be it in the classroom or the boardroom or the bedroom.

    Matthew 22: 34 – What is the greatest commandment – Love the Lord your God… and the second is like it, love your neighbour as yourself. We are to love our neighbour. In fact, Jesus commands us to love our enemies. That is a tough one. As Biblical Christians our fundamental job description to others is to love them.

    We can’t expect non-Christians to act like Christians, but as Christians we have a duty to love our neighbour. However, you can only love if you understand the life of your neighbour. We need to build relationships with our neighbour. Our neighbours are black, white, Indian, coloured, Chinese, Eritrean, Nigerian. I would think to love your neighbour you need to know who they are, find out their background, their struggles, their hopes and dreams. Learn from them, listen to them.

    b) What does the bible say about it?

    Gen 1: 26, 27 – God created man in his own image. Though we have different races, languages, people groups, we are all equally made in the image of God. Strictly speaking there is only one race, the human race. Though we have some ethnic, cultural differences, we are all descended from Adam and Eve – there is only one human race. This means when I see another person, my attitude ought not to be, that’s a coloured person, that’s a black person etc. No. What I need to say:

    • He’s created in the image of God, just like me.
    • He’s descended from Adam just like me.
    • He is a sinner just like me.
    • He needs a saviour, just like me

    If the other person is a Christian, what I need to say is:

    • She’s a sinner saved by grace, just like me
    • She’s a precious child of God, just like me
    • She’s a member of God’s family, just like me.

    Colossians 3:11. The church in Colossi had Jews, Greeks, circumcised, uncircumcised, barbarian Scythians, yet all of that was eclipsed by their unity in Christ, “but Christ is all and is in all”. In the church of Jesus Christ there ought to be no discrimination, as our primary identity is not whether we are married or single, doctor or teacher, black or white. No our primary identity and our primary unity is that whatever race or colour or language we are, we are all “in Christ”. Our ethnic, cultural differences are temporary, but our identity in Christ is permanent and eternal.

    Ephesians 2:14. Christ came to destroy the dividing wall of hostility between Jew and Gentile, black and white, Hutu and Tutsi, Serbs and Croats, Poles and Russians, Turks and Greeks.

    Only Christ can ultimately destroy the racial barriers, because only Christ can deal with the fallen human heart. You see, racism is ultimately a problem of the heart and only Christ can change our hearts.

    Some say, if only there were no blacks in SA we’d be fine. Others say, if only there were no whites in SA we’d be fine. Nonsense. It’s a problem of the heart. As Alexander Solzhenitzen was spot on: “If only it were as simple as there being good people and bad people. However, the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being”. We all need new hearts which only Christ can provide.

    Eph. 2:13. We were far away from God, we were far away from one another. Christ has brought us near to God and each other through his blood.

    Eph.2:14. The cross of Christ has destroyed the barrier of discrimination. The cross has broken the wall of hatred and hostility.

    Eph. 2:18. Because of the cross of Christ, Gentile and Jew; Black and white; Turk and Greek; Serb and Croat all have equal access to the Father by one Spirit.

    Revelation 7:9 – 10. In John’s vision of heaven, there will be people of every nation, tribe, people and language all in heaven because of the substitutionary death of Christ on the Cross. Our differences will be totally irrelevant as our combined focus will be on the Lamb seated on the throne. All one in Christ.

    Real Practical Suggestions

    This blog does not address the issues of land, capital, party politics or other such important matters. It is primarily speaking to Christians and how we ought to relate to one another in the body of Christ in this diverse country of South Africa.

    a) We all need to repent of our sin. Whites in particular need to repent of their racism, their indifference, their unconcern for the well-being of their black neighbours. Blacks need to repent of anger or hatred. We all need to repent of our grudges and prejudices.

    b) Whites in particular need to affirm in principle and in practise the fact that all people are made in the image of God and therefore have dignity, worth and eternal value.

    • Do you know whether your employees have kids, their ages, their names, their grades?
    • Do you know where your employees live, how long it takes for them to get to work?
    • Do you know whether your employees are Christians, have you shared the Gospel with them?

    c) Respect people of other races.

    • At least learn the greetings of people of other races with whom you work.
    • Learn the proper names of the people with whom you work. My name is Martin. I would prefer not to be called Martha or Moira. Surely I should show the same respect for other races in terms of their names.
    • Have you ever had a person of another race come for dinner at your home? Build relationships with people of other races by inviting them into your home.

    The Real End

    I agree with Ian von Memerty: “I am a recovering racist. I’ve been relatively clean for 30 years, but sometimes I slip up. When I do, I need to repent and remind myself that we are all made in the image of God and have intrinsic value, dignity and worth. I need to remind myself that we are all sinners. I need to remind myself that we all need a Saviour. Every day, as a white man, I need to take some small steps to bring healing and wholeness to our fractured, hurting world. Every day, I need to remind myself that without Christ, there is no ultimate answer to the injustices and suffering of our world. Without Christ, I am alienated from those around me and alienated from the God who created me.”

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